Mom vs. Jackets

At the beginning of jacket wearing season, W would have a fit trying to do his own zipper.  I would always try to do it for him if we were in a hurry but he hated that. Finally he learned to do it himself. Then D comes along and, having seen his brother throw fits about doing it by himself, also wants to do it by himself.  This is impossible for a one year-old!  Then, W decided he can no longer zip his own jacket and wants me to do it for him.

So now I have a 4 year old who can zip his jacket and won't, and a 1 year old who can't zip his jacket and gets mad when I try to do it.